Predators watch people and what they do. They are watching you, so you have to watch back. They are watching you and your children. This means you have to contemplate your safety zone and the areas around you. Insist your children this also. Learn to scan the areas where you are going and BE AWARE of your surroundings at all times. It’s called managing your personal space.
I worked in a high-rise building. A woman was cornered in an elevator. She had gone down to get the newest rage, scratch off lottery tickets from the ground floor store. The woman was so aroused about her lottery tickets; she did not notice another man get in the elevator with her that was ragged. As soon as the door closed, the man hit the 25th floor button, giving him enough time to do something to her. He ripped her blouse off the front of her and tried to rape her. Before floor 25, the door of the elevator flew begin and a man was there to get on, the rapist fled on foot.
When you get on an elevator, look at the people inside, is it first-rate for you to get on? If there is a suspicious person, wait till the next car. When it is safe get inside near the door, near the buttons. Know where the open door buttons and alarm buttons are. Act fast if something happens. If a strange person gets on, get off. Do not second-guess your intuition. Learn to listen to your gut.
Predators look for victims. Walk and look strong, capable, head held high, walk purposely. Predators look for passiveness, distraction and weakness. If you present this to a predator you could end up dead. Always be ready and aware, this is the best you can do. Just by looking around, a predator may think he has been spotted and he may look elsewhere. Look people right in the eye strongly and let them know you are strong.
Predators love confusion, so the busier the places, the better. Malls, shopping plazas, retail stores, parking lots and parks are always places predators will lurk. For children malls, playgrounds, pools, recreation halls, fairs and festivals. It is very hard to control crowds, so very often predators hit in people places. Adam Walsh was abducted by a predator at a Sears store. Proper in the middle of all those people, a predator took Adam out the door. Now stores have an Adam Alert in place so that if a child is abducted the doors are to be immediately locked. So if your child goes missing in a store, get to the personnel and have them do an immediate Adam alert and lock the doors.
That doesn’t go without saying that you shouldn’t watch your children in these stores or yourself. Teach your children not to be lured by candy, gifts, and promises of anything. Predators can still molest children in stores or public places, especially bathrooms. Go with your children in these bathrooms. One girl was abducted from a McDonald’s bathroom and killed. Any place that will attract your child will attract a predator. Witness there is usually a door very near these bathrooms so people do not have to exit through the main lobby doors. Do not leave your children unattended.
I know through the years I grew up I was dropped off at pools and fun places, but now it is a different world. People are taking our children, raping us. Right now there are over 600,000 sexual predators according to missingkids.com. 100,000 of those predators are lost in our system and are not tracked.
Females are raped and taken more frequently than boys. Females have always been considered the weaker sex and this is exactly what I am saying about taking your personal space serious.
I am attractive and as a child was radiant. I have been followed, almost abducted, survived molestation and have had three female family members raped and molested. I am speaking from experience. Yes I have a degree in criminalistics, victimology, criminal behavior, sexual deviance and have worked on thousands of missing person cases, it doesn’t matter. Manage your personal space.
The number one predator is a male, usually single. If you look you will see him. He is sitting around malls watching people. He may be sitting in a car in a parking lot. A strange man was sitting in a car the day Molly Bish disappeared and was killed.
A predator may be too attentive to your children and buy them gifts and offer to take them places. Sometimes they apply for childrens’ jobs, like scout leader, coach, teacher. Etc. He may be a friend of the family. Do not under any circumstances allow a single male to baby-sit your children. I don’t care who he is. Predators do not have a sign on their foreheads. They want to appear to be helpful.
In Oprah’s recent show where she interviewed sex offenders, pedophiles were all known to their victims. This is a crime about trust. Very often they go out of their way to gain your trust and put you at ease to get at your children.
Girlfriends that have children beware! Samantha Zaldavar is dead now because her mother allowed her boyfriend Angel Cologne to contemplate her children. Cologne raped and killed Samantha in Wyoming County and then buried her body. This is all guilt and shame. He is guilty over what he did, so he buried the body out of shame. Very often these predators will especially choose women that have children so they can victimize them. If this begins to happen, listen to your children. Most of all believe them if they assert you they are being touched or exposed. If you can’t take care of the children yourself, glean a female friend, relative or day care to help out.
Predators and rapists do not wear masks! Think about it. This one premise alone is astonishing. They don’t because they have their game thought down. They hide in plain place. They try you on for size. They test you and keep taking steps they need to accomplish what it is they are doing. I will give you an example.
I was walking out to my car in a super market and a black female starts approaching me in ragged clothes. Buy away the dusky or racist share about this and you have musty clothes. I immediately yelled get away from me, as loud as I could. It startled her, but she still came at me anyway. I jumped in my car and started beeping the horn. The woman was screaming unfamiliar things at me, pounding on my window and was apparently weird. The horn scared her off and I left, calling the super market as soon as I got home, letting them know that a strange person was approaching their customers.
Last year in Wal-Mart here, there was a well-dressed Black man approaching customers that were leaving the store. I saw him and told him loud and clear, I was not interested; he still tried to approach me. He actually tried to talk to me from a distance that he was selling magazine subscriptions, if I would only give him a deposit, he would mail me the magazines. I told him in no risky terms to back off in loud tones and he quickly turned away. I got his description, hurried in my car and called security to Wal-Mart on my cell phone. I stayed on the phone in the back share of the lot until store security had him.
Here is a man that was dressed clean and nice, selling subscriptions. He would acquire your address to your house and possibly rob you and then if he got money, he had one up on you. If you pulled out your wallet, he may have gotten that from you. Don’t fall for it. Call security.
Girl Scouts very often set up in front of store, selling their cookies. Usually this is safe. If someone is sitting in front of Wal-Mart with a stand, usually they have permission. A man or person that is roaming the lot generally is roaming for a reason. He does not have permission from the store to be there, but it is a public parking lot for customers of the store, not there for thieves to take advantage of paying customers. Parking lots are confusing, once again a predators dream.
Parking lots are one of the number one places of abduction. Do not park your vehicle next to a van or delivery vehicle. Park in spots closest to the doors. Park in well lit spots. Look around before you earn out of the car and make sure you are safe. Lock your doors. Keep your keys handy as a weapon. Pay attention and study around, watching cars and people in them. Keep valuables in your pockets or purses tight to your body. Do not use long straps or target purses. If anyone approaches you get encourage, yell out, do something to intimidate the person, but do not let the person get up close in your personal situation.
If someone does hold you up, throw your purse the opposite direction and run the opposite way. Get out of there. It is not worth your life. If someone does grab you, do not let him take you anywhere, fight it out there on the residence. That is the best state for you to survive. He knows it, that’s why he wants to get you out of there. If he jumps in your car, smash it up. Chances are he will jump out. What is your best chance to survive? It is not going with him, alone to a secluded location. Fight it out on the spot. You may acquire injure, but chances are you will survive.
You live alone. Fabricate sure your doors are well lit with security lights. Check the location before you get out of the car. Lock your doors, even if you urge to the store. Lock the doors behind you even if you are only home for a minute. Many robberies and attacks occur when you are followed home. I have been followed home a number of times.
Make sure your windows are closed and locked at night. Ted Bundy was a UPS driver and got to know all the recipients of mail. Where women lived and he scoped out their apartments, He loved basement apartments, as they were easy to smash into. This should be a clue, don’t rent one. He came back and hurt people.
If someone breaks into your home at night, this is called a home invasion. It is the worst kind of break in. Call out “intruders” and let your family know the plan, so they can bustle and get encourage. Everyone must go out windows doors, whatever, to get help. This is the most dangerous kind of break in and serious injuries result. You need to fight for your life and refuse to be tied up.
I was buying a house and had visited a bank to get my deposit for the contract. I went to K-Mart to buy some things for my new house. I got to the check out and noticed a man that was also in the bank. He was on the phone, but watching me. As I left the store, I watched him in my rear view mirror. He expeditiously came out of K-Mart and got into his car. At this point I wanted to find some lunch and went to Arby’s. The same man now showed up at Arby’s. Now I started to feel watched and set up a plan before I left the restaurant. I decided I would take an obscure route behind the building that not too many people knew was there, leading to another parking lot. HE FOLLOWED ME, THROUGH THIS MAZE! This was not by any means the normal exit from the restaurant. At this point, I knew I was being followed for sure. He was probably going to follow me to my house and see where I lived, as he knew I was in the bank. This now was far too sure that he was in fact watching me.
As I drove through the lot I had seen from the restaurant that they were doing construction. This was way before cell phones were out, so I did not have a phone. I pulled up to one of the construction workers and acted like I knew him and told him the guy behind me was following me and to just detain him with the construction so I could get away. He blocked him and started explaining something and I zipped away, making strange turns away from my house and toward the police situation, where I promptly reported him. I was so upset I never got his license plate number or make of car at that time. This is how upset you can become. Thank God I noticed him watching me in the second stop and realized he was following me. What were the chances of someone being in all three places I was and using the obscure exit from the restaurant?
Rapists
Rapists do not wear masks and are all about power. They may follow you, watch you, blitz you and attack from unhurried. These are generally the three types of attacks.
Following you, watching you, stalking you is scary but it happens. I had a friend that received a card in the mail from a complete stranger at her work, our work. We worked together in the car business. The card was a simple card, saying, “Hello, I see you everyday and know what you are wearing. I like your shoes”. I tried to warn her right off the bat that this was a stalker, but she thought it was cute. She was a greeter in the showroom, sitting right in the window. She was very attractive. Her job was to handle phones and all customers entering the showroom. Her phone ran when she got the mail and opened her card. It was HIM! He told her he was watching her initiate the card. He commented on her clothes, he wanted her name. He quickly hung up but started a series of calls. She was laughing, I was not. I tried to explain that any man that wanted to legitimately meet her would race in the business and advise his name so you could see his face. This man was stalking her. She excused what I was saying and continued to get more calls, cards with no address and more personal information about her. The cards became more explicit, more sexual. He started to tell her that they had a great relationship. What relationship? He said he wanted to massage her feet, kiss her feet. Then she realized what I had said was correct and she got creeped out by being in the window. I encouraged her to narrate the boss and move back from the front of the window and report this to police. The police were very fervent as this was happening to other women in the businesses near there, so they came up with a plan.
My friend and coworker was put further to the back of the showroom, out of the window and within more safety of the dealership. More phone calls started now because this man could not behold her. The police were now listening and tracing his calls. They got him! He was lawful across the street in one of the offices, lurking! He could see her every move, all day. Ugh! What’s the surprise, he was a predator. How far would this have gone, if I wasn’t there warning her? This was an example of a stalker.
A female relative of mine was waiting for a bus. It was 9:00pm, in front of Wendy’s Restaurant. My relative observed a black man walking down the street. She watched him for about 3-4 blocks. Then just before he got to her, he turned in a business and was there for a few minutes. He exited the store walking right by my relative. My relative made eye contact and continued to watch him as he walked by. She relaxed her peruse contact for a second and felt he was passing, when this man put his arm around her neck and pushed a knife from inside his coat into her ribs and said, “don’t make any noise and I won’t hurt you”. HE IS ALREADY HURTING YOU; DO NOT FALL FOR THIS LIE!!!!! You must sigh yourself to NOT listen to them, if this happens. FIGHT! KICK! SCREAM! FIGHT IT OUT Factual THERE!!!!
My relative listened and he took her to what is known as the second crime scene. The second crime scene is more perilous, secure for him to commit his crime on you. Your best chance of surviving is fighting it out right where you are!
There was a Wendy’s with a lot of people inside. If she would have fought right there, right on the street, he may have taken off. DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES ALLOW HIM TO TAKE YOU TO THE 2nd CRIME SCENE. YOU MAY WIND UP Monotonous!!!!
Sadly, my relative was raped and it affected our entire lives. He also robbed her purse and told her more lies about being quiet for 5 minutes, so he could get away. At that point she ran into Wendy’s and the police were summoned. Yes, she was traumatized and scared beyond concept. However due to the fact that she had an opportunity to watch him for 3-4 blocks, she had a great description of him. The store that he went into was a video store, where he had a subscription to rent videos. He rented The Gigolo. His name and address were on file. He was arrested and jailed for 8 years. He is now out of prison, but not listed on ANY list as this was prior to any laws concerning these predators. Once again his rights! His name is Alan Terry, Buffalo, NY. He is now out on the streets.
This is an example of the predator that attacks you from gradual, usually with a knife or gun. Make no bones about it, HE HAS A WEAPON ON HIM! This is why YOU HAVE TO FIGHT IT OUT IN THE STORE, PARKING LOT, STREET, WHEREVER you are! This may be your only chance of surviving this attack. Whatever he tells you to do is a lie.
The blitz attack is an attempt to distract your attention, so you have to beware of people with directions and asking you for the time, etc. A man may call you over to a car and then pull you inside, like what happened to me. He may ask you for the time so you drop your eyes and look at your watch, hitting you over the head and blitzing you. Dragging you into his car or alley, possibly to the next crime scene.
A beautiful girl Chelsea King was probably just killed this way. Chelsea went jogging alone. That was a fatal mistake, even in a public park, where you feel people are around, predators are lurking. DO NOT GO JOGGING ALONE! No one is immune. According to the chart of the day the attack happened from the left, a wooded area, the West, near water. I am distinct that this wooded spot was planned out, that he knew Chelsea ran there already. She was probably stalked out and this was planned.
Anyway he jumped out and grabbed her by surprise. A blitz. He took her to the 2nd crime scene further into the woods or out of view and Chelsea is gone. Then to cover his guilt and shame he buries the body. It’s the same thing over and over. The only benefit here is that if this creep did get Amber than we know she may not be far from her path that day. She is buried, if it was this guy. Start looking for Amber.
Ted Bundy used disquises. He dressed up like he had a broken arm, broken leg, you name it. Then when an unsuspecting safe student came along trying to help his pitiful self, he knocked them over the head and pulled them inside his customized VW. I say customized because he had the front seat taken out and door releases removed. Once inside he handcuffed you to his seat. I can’t imagine the fright that he provoked out of people.
Child predators are different in their approaches to kids. Many use kid things like toys, animals, movies, and games, candy. As Oprah brought out in her show, these predators are usually friends of the family or right close to your child. THEY USUALLY KNOW YOUR CHILD!
In my family’s case, the predator was my ex-husband’s friend. A betrayal of trust with precious children and one of our own was raped by this man. A predator in our own house, pretending that he was a friend to husband, my family and me. All the while grooming, even buying them gifts we knew nothing about. He built relationships we knew nothing about slack our backs. THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT. He started to focus a lot of attention on one child, buy her gifts, let her smoke behind our backs and do things that were not acceptable to us. He was sneaking in her room at night and starting to molest her.
I had a broken foot at the time and was on heavy pain medicine. My husband trusted this man totally as he was respected employee that worked for his company in an elevated position of management. This man had said scandalous things to me behind my husband’s back and I tried to warn him, but he refused to listen to me, saying I was jealous of his relationship and didn’t want him to have a friend. However this calm threw me off the track of the kids.
This so called friend told my husband he was getting divorced and made up all these stories about being alone and not getting dinners and going through hell. All lies but we felt sorry for him and invited him into our lives. Then he wanted to start staying over night on our couch and I told my husband no, this was too much. I wasn’t into to grown up sleepovers. This man started to take over my family and I resisted with my husband and I now fighting over this so called friend. He had managed to turn my husband against me.
It wasn’t long after this that we had found out that this so called friend had molested a family member. A child. Once again people wouldn’t listen to me, my experience, my background. People just don’t listen.
This man turned my enjoy husband against me as my husband was confiding in this man about my fears, so he had to effect his own skin and destroy our marriage and family. As I look at it now, my husband couldn’t have been so staunch to me if this man was capable of turning him on me. The child was the one that took the most damage.
This man was arrested, tried and plead down. He is now out of jail and listed as a low level sexual predator. His name is James Bigley, Fort Erie, Canada. He was living in Alden, NY at the time of the attacks’ He was deported succor to Canada.
Families, if you start having fears about someone around your children, you had better listen up. More advice is that you know what adults are around your children at all times. Trusting people is gone. Investigate who is around your child before you produce a decision. Don’t take chances.
There were times that I would go to a family’s house when my daughter would want to sleep over night to see what kind of family it was. I found one time, no furniture in the house. A TV location and kitchen table. When I knocked on the door and the front door opened, dope smoke came out of the house. I was composed invited in. They said that smoking dope was okay with their family! This was back in the 70’s. I said I don’t think so and high tailed it off that porch. WOW!
In the Sharon Marshall story, “A Beautiful Child”, by Matt Birkbeck, Sharon’s best friend Jennifer was allowed to sleep over Sharon’s house. This predator Franklin D. Floyd (now on death row in Florida) kidnapper that actually kidnapped Sharon in the first place barged in on the kids when she was over, I am sure on purpose. He allowed Sharon to have crotch less panties and lewd clothing as he was filming her and molesting her, let them go to a dance club, unsupervised and more. Jennifer admitted she never told her parents. Jennifer is lucky he did not molest her, although he may have tried to lure her over once on the phone having Sharon call Jennifer.
Do not do this people, withhold them home with you. You have no control over what happens to your children unless you are there with them. Keep them close to you. Predators are everywhere.
For many years the police and government have been dragging their feet about predators. Children have gone missing and they hardly search. They have known who the predators are in the communities all along. We are the ones that didn’t know where these predators were that were taking advantage of our families. We need to all ask that laws get tougher, stronger without plea bargains so these creeps are kept in jail.
Some of the kids taken up in Connecticut were pulled true off their bikes, their bikes a goodbye to the child they once had.
I remember being a teenage child, going to the fair with my parents. I was about 15 or 16. There was a crowd watching an event in the rush field. It was crowded, people were very close. Two rows to my left, is this man, rubbing up and down the with his coat in front of him to hide his privates, rubbing himself sexually on the little girl in front of him, who did not know what to do. Her little head was going left and right, as if to say-tell this guy to stop. She was petrified. I quickly elbowed my mom who yelled out “hey, what do you contemplate you are doing”.
It was in a huge crowd, you could hardly move in the crowd, but he got out and ran off before we could come by out and get the police. We spoke to the girl, making definite she was all right. Her mother was mortified that that could happen in public, in a crowd!
Regardless of laws, predators are lawbreakers to commence with. They know the laws. They don’t care. Their addictions are stronger than the laws. It is up to us to peep our children and make obvious they are safe.
Haleigh Cummings is gone, left with a babysitter. Even though this was a girl, Misty Cummings is a drug user, true now sitting in jail for drug arrests. Drug users are not to be trusted either. They may want to sell the child for drugs or money. Our world is pretty messed up.
Caylee Anthony gone, due to a mother that was on drugs. I also feel that the boyfriend is involved in this one as well.
Steven Staynor was taken by a pastor of a church in his community. Someone he trusted and knew. Random abductions are rare.
Jon Benet case is tranquil not solved to this day, but we know it was a sexual predator.
Do not let your children sell door to door school items unless you are right beside them. Many schools have the students become little sales people and fund raisers. I used to seize all the items and not allow my children to do this. You have a child knock on a door of a complete stranger and the child is immediately in a comfort zone of the person. The child can be isolated and molested, as seen in the newspaper girl attack some years ago. If you want your children to do this, then make the effort and go with the child, up to the door and with them.
Many people no longer allow their children to go trick or treating. Many communities are now having parties instead. This is safer. If you want them to go trick or treating, once again go with them.
Some people just say I will buy you whatever candy you want. Let’s go to the store, but no trick or treating. I fancy you too much to risk your safety.
Many children have been abducted on their way home or way to school. The predator says your mother told me to recall you up. Acquire it clear and repeat it to your children that they should never score in a car like this. NEVER. Give them a code that only you know in an emergency situation. Make them know this code. The predator will not have that code.
I used to study my children at the bus close and be there for them when they got off the bus. Do not let them do this alone or a predator will know, especially someone from the neighborhood.
If your child is taken tell them to kick, scream, create a fight no matter what happens, They need to fight it out.
Do not get into the habit of leaving your children home alone, as predators are always watching and know things. Many times predators live right near you and you are unaware of their natures.
Babysitting used to be a main stay for me. My family did not have a lot of money, so babysitting provided me with a way to buy the extra clothes and do dads that girls love. It did even at that time put me at risk, however.
Once you are in the privacy of someone’s home, they feel they have power and control over you. They do have an advantage as they know their home better than you. If you do babysit, have emergency phone numbers. Know all the exits. Retain your personal space and by that I mean do not let people get so close to you that they can touch you. If people can touch you than it’s hazardous. Stay back and away. That privilege is for special people, family members and loved ones.
If your child babysits, offer to consume them up and drop them off as many assaults happen in the ride there and home. Although this did not happen to me, I had many friends that were assaulted on the drive. When I heard this I refused to babysit for the people. Be able to talk to your children about anything. Do not prove too much upset or they will refuse to tell you things.
A babysitter was actually kidnapped and killed when answering a Craig’s List ad for babysitter.Investigate, help your child be safe.
Let’s take a look at your risk factor as a person. You are more likely to become a victim if you go out at night. You are more likely to become a victim if you work at night. You are more likely to be a victim if you consume drugs. You are more likely to be a victim if you hang around with lawbreakers. You are more likely to be a victim if you are in a domestic violence situation. You are more likely to be a victim if you are alone. You are more likely to be a victim if you do not pay attention and act distracted or weak. If you are pregnant your risk factor has just increased. If you are a female you have a higher risk factor. You have a higher risk factor if you are attractive.
If you are a child, you are more likely to be a victim if your parents both work. You are more likely to be a victim if you are from a broken home. You are more likely to be a victim if drugs are used around you. You are more likely to be a victim if you are left to come home alone from school. You are more likely to be a victim if you are allowed to cease over at other houses. You are more likely to be a victim if you are alone. You are more likely to be a victim if you are not taught to speak up and say no.
Predators do not want you to know them, where they live or anything about them. When they offend, they move. They change houses and cars like underwear to stay unidentified. They change their clothes, their hair, and their face. It is for this reason that they try to blend and be likeable. ASK QUESTIONS about your neighbors and if they start being vague investigate them and see who they are. Have they been to many neighborhoods? Schools? Places of work?
I turned in one predator to schools and churches because he moved to throw suspicion off his support. Once they are discovered, they recede. This is why we have registration laws, but they find more ways to evade their criminal past.
It is no surprise to me that Sharon Marshall; “A Beautiful Child” had been dragged to schools all over the country, lived in many homes. This is a predator’s lifestyle. We didn’t recognize it then, but now we know it now.
PREDATORS ARE EVERYWHERE. Just remember that there is one lurking not far from you. There used to be a saying about spiders; there’s one always at least 10 feet from you, no matter where you are. This almost applies with the exception of 10 feet.
They are at work, play, fun, everywhere. I had a friend that worked at Grant’s years ago. I got a letter from her when I lived in Florida that her boss was having her go down to the basement to refill the candy jars and was touching her privates all the way down to the basement and all the blueprint back up in the elevator. I wrote her quickly and told her that if it was happening to her than he was victimizing other girls too. I told her to ask around and recount him. My friend asked around and other girls were being touched exactly as I had figured. They all got together and went to the boss together. The man was promptly fired, however no charges were brought against him. Today we know this as sexual harassment.
When I was in the car business and went for a new job as a car salesmen, I promptly sold 3 cars the first day. The boss asked me to stay after work and speak to him. I thought he was going to praise me and maybe offer me management. No it was more like corner me in the back showroom, rip off my dress and try to strangle me in the back of a conversion van. A married man with many children. The Lord told me this one and saved my life. He said, make an excuse. I said, “oh my necklace is caught, hang on a minute”. The tone was believable. I had stopped fighting, that was believable. He let go. A share of a second later I was running in a black showroom, as he had now shut off the lights on me and it was pitch black in this huge showroom made of cement block. I bolted and went into high gear mentally. I knew that if I spoke I would have to move. I yelled, “let me out of here or I will set off every alarm you have”, Then a moved across the room. He kept telling me to mild down; I might like it, “don’t set off alarms”. I knew I had to get to the back of the showroom, where there was a grand mechanical garage door. But if he locked it, I was done. Luckily I moved lickety-split and hit the button, knowing that if he ran there and caught me I was dead.
The garage door opened. I don’t think it was a foot off the ground; I slid under and got out. I don’t remember how I got home. It was several miles. I only remember waking up sitting on my kitchen floor. My roommate came in and saw me in a fetal position and rocking and she knew something had happened. When I told her she wanted to call police. I refused, as I needed the job so badly.
The next day I went in and sure enough my boss stood in front of my desk and said to me, “Is it going to be today? ” I didn’t work there too much longer after that. I just quit. Sexual Harassment.
I was 14 and walked into a hardware store. I bought something itsy-bitsy and paid the money. The clerk handed me the bag up to my chest and felt my breasts, then smiled at me. The scrutinize on his face said everything. He knew what he did. Then as I spun around and bolted out the door, he went, “thank you!” Ugh! Some old man touched me. It was gross.
Today we have the Internet. Predators galore. It’s one of the top places, predators lurk. We are hearing now girls meeting men on the Internet, meeting them, getting raped and abducted. It is not safe. Do not let your child go on the Internet, unless you are right in the room watching what they are doing. Under no circumstances should you let your child have a computer alone in their room. That is disaster waiting to happen.
Kids are curious and they want to discover more and more of the adult world before their time. It is all there on the Internet. Predators are literally one click away.
The unique predator is an Internet predator. You only know what they tell you to be just. Believe nothing that men protest you on the Internet. Chat sites are very hazardous and lewd. I pretended to be a teen one time and within 30 seconds I was hit on by a predator trying to talk sexual to me.
They get good into your computer, your house. It feels weird.
Personal web sites are another problem. Many people want to meet modern potential dating partners and join online dating services. Becareful. Here is where I have found that predators are very savey. They make sure you are of the age of consent, meet you and then try to do all kinds of sexual things to you. They actually try to make it all your idea. Some may even write and twist things to make like you are setting up the whole date. Do not go to their house. This is very dangerous. If you want to meet, meet them in a public station. Drive your beget car. Know some things about them, that you can verify, like their name, address, where they work, etc. Tell someone where you are meeting the person. Make sure you use you manage your personal space. It might be better to call them on the phone first and get to know them better, than meeting them moral away.
If you do some research about these sites, you will find the number one reason that men want to meet women is sex. That is not what women say in their poles about meeting men. Generally they want a companion and long term relationship. Warning there are prostitutes on the boards trying to make money as well.
Meeting a person that does not want to buy you a coffee or water is a problem. Do not let this person physically touch you until you know him or her better. These dating sites are very risky to say the least. It is easy to lie and be deceptive on the Internet. Old fashioned methods of meeting people are more tried and good.
I do not like stranger of any kind in my house now. Nobody. They can wait at the door. I do not want people checking out me, my house, belongings, family, nothing. They can wait outside. It will not hurt them.
Just recently I had a man come to my door. It was locked. He kept knocking and knocking, even though I had a doorbell. This was my sun porch that I also kept locked and people out of my personal area. I opened my top door, but was ready for anything, as I knew this was a stranger. I said, “what do you want? “, commanding an answer. He said, “Near DOWN HERE BY THE DOOR I WANT TO TALK TO YOU”! I SAID, “NO YOU CAN TALK TO ME FROM THERE”. HE SAID, “I TOLD YOU TO Near DOWN HERE AND TALK TO ME once again and I said,”ANYTHING YOU NEED TO SAY I CAN HEAR FROM HERE”. He had his hands in his pockets. He did not have a car, which I conception was strange. No ID hanging from his neck, no emblem on his jacket. He tried my door. It was locked, thank God. I slammed the door and called the police. I saw the man go next door. Apparently he was going door to door but had no car.
When the police arrived I saw them wing around the neighborhood until they caught him. Then immediately they were canvassing the neighbors. He was selling magazines subscriptions with only a business card and no books or logos from the company. He did not have a car, so someone had dropped him off. I learned that he had serene cash from some people already and had no license to sell door to door in our town. He was arrested.
This was a odd man at my door. With his hands in his pockets. He had gotten upset with me because I was on to him and nasty. I was not going along with his plan. He could have robbed me. I am sure that none of the people would get the magazines they ordered. He would be gone with the cash. The police gave all the people their money back. The man left in the back of a patrol car.
Do not open doors for strange people. Let them leave a brochure.
If this gives you one tip, I am happy. Maybe this will save a child or your life.
Right now rob a notice around your neighborhood. Who lives around you? How well do you know them? Are there any single men living around you? Are there men that live around you that cheat on their wives? These men may be abusive too, so watch out for them. Are there men that are flat out abusive to their wives and children? Misfortune signs are there. Predators generally could be abusive, but sometimes charming. That fake charming that sometimes people have. You know something is not right, but you just can’t put your finger on it.
Franklin Floyd’s house was tattered. This was a man that kidnapped and killed people and children. He said he was a painter, but his house needed painting. This also let him into houses to explore the lay out and what you had. Houses say a lot about their owners.
People lively in and out of the neighborhood is a symptom of a predator. You can only know your neighbors through longevity. People’s schedules are another key. Are they up all night? Are they partiers? If it walks like a duck and talks like a duck, it is a duck theory. Open your eyes to your neighborhood. If you don’t like it change it or fade before something happens.
If you gather current neighbors in the neighborhood, ask questions and gather to know them right away. If they do not like this, tough, something may be wrong.
My children were only allowed to go to kids’ houses that had a parent home when they were visiting. This house was drug free. It is called a honorable house list. See if your school has one. If they don’t, then start one. If they have one, get on it and justify to your children these are the only
acceptable playmates and houses they can visit. It works.
Find out the closest sexual predators and point them out to your children and stammer them to stay away. We have a man that has raped and was in jail for 8 years. He is still walking and does not have a license. He lives in the woods. What does that insist you? I tell everyone I know about him and I am amazed how many people do not know who he is. One time we were in the elegant market and he was eyeing my family up. I hurried out of the store.
If you have woods nearby or rural areas than do not under any circumstances let your children into these areas alone. They are just waiting for chances to molest.
Define to your children that you love them. Maintain them close and watch them because somebody else may already know their name.
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